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What about getting married?

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  1. lincoln

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    Hey guys,
    I'm 20 and way too young to get married but I just wonder what you guys are thinking about getting married and having kids? Because I saw a lot of video on social media that gay couples don't want kids or to get married for some reasons, I just wanted to ask.
    For me I do wanna get married and adopt a child or children and raise them with someone I love.
     
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    If it was the right person I'd definetly want marriage. In fact I'd probabaly be upset if it didn't ever go there.

    I mean. I kinda already started planning my wedding in my head XD

    But I have no desire to ever be a father.
     
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    Considering that I'm currently 15 and way too young to get married, that is something that does quite occupy me.

    And to answer your question. Yes, I do wanna get married but I don't want to have Kids. But having a dog is a MUST for me. I just love small dogs :3 .

    But, I am kinda' scared that, if I do get married, that we'll brake up. So yeah, typical me. Always has a fear for something.
     
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    I have just started picking engagement rings. I will hopefully propose some time this year!

    I am excited to show my boyfriend that I love him like a traditional relationship of which none in our lives have shown.

    I hope so strongly to have a biological child together, as I know we will be greater parents than again, we have experienced.
     
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    So happy to hear that :)  And seeing a gay couple that would wanna have a child makes me feel relieved.
     
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    I'd love to get married and have children with a woman, it sounds weird I know, I think its just something about pleasing my family and living up to expectations.

    If I found my dream guy, I'd marry him in a minute. I would even care that Im in the closet. Marriage to another guy is something I really want some day. But I cant really see myself raising children in a gay marriage, it wouldnt be biologically both of ours and I feel one of us would be left out.
     
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    I wanna have 5 kids!!!!!!!!!! or maybe 6, dont know yet!! :D 
     
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    Let me reason,,,for years heterosexuals have demonstrated that marriage has major disadvantages,,,,,
    I personally would love it, if it were banned for everyone.
    it has cost me over $3million.
    Sorry to rain on the parade
     
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    Morfar You're a hard case pal, so jaded. :( 
     
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    I was married and in a relationship for 5.5 years. He cheated and demanded an open marriage rather than go through marriage counselling.

    I've seen marriage work, my grandparents have been married for 67 years.

    Although, I've felt the burn of divorce, and the implosion of my life as it ensued, I would seriously consider marrying again.

    The only advice I could provide, take your time, and live together.

    One of my colleagues in the foreign service told me this, travel the world to the busiest airports in the world for a year, if you are still together, marry them on the spot because you'd have gone through the most parts of the human spectrum that time.

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