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Very Attracted to A Lesbian

Discussion in 'Bisexual & Pansexual' started by Terrellble_films, Jun 21, 2020.  |  Print Topic

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Should I let her know of my attraction and see what happens or just shut It up?

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  1. Tell Her

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  2. Don't Do It

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  1. Terrellble_films

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    I am a pansexual male and I am very attracted to a lesbian. She is very cute and I can't get enough of her. She is a bit of a Butchish lesbian but that doesn't stop my attraction. I would like to make love to her and treat her so sweet. My question is should I let her know of my attraction and see what happens or just shut It up?
     
  2. Jo A
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    Can I ask a question - is this only sexual or do you wish to reach out to her soul?

    I forgot - Welcome to a safe and wonderful place - Jo
     
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    It definitely not just sexual. I hope my post didn't come off as that. I used to work with her and seeing her face and her smile and her voice just made my day. I understand that someone male isnt her type of partner but I'd still like to show her my love for her. If rejected i will accept it and move on. I will be a bit heartbroken but i will understand cause like i said someone male isnt her type. If anything I'd like to take her out on some sort of date and at least have one good night with her.
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    I am going to push things here.

    Can you love and respect her as a platonic lover? Share your heart and soul but no sex.

    It is a beautiful thing if you are willing to explore it and if she is, as you suggest a true lesbian, it does not take her out of her being who she is.

    Good Luck - Jo
     
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    I would do anything for her. Just want to make her happy, to see her smile. I would never expect her to come out of her comfort zone just to satisfy me.
     
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    Hi! I think, if your feelings start making your life without her unbearable, you should tell about your feelings. Any answer is better than suffer.
    Are you afraid to lose her friendship? What are you afraid of if you tell her?
    Welcome to the club, I'm in love with a straight girl.
     
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    If she's a lesbian then you shouldn't expect her to reciprocate your feelings. If you are fully aware of that then go ahead and tell her but make it clear that you don't expect anything from her and you just wanted to get it off your chest. But if you hope that you can change her or something then don't do it, she will probably feel that you are being disrespectful. Good luck whatever you decide to do.
     
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    I would never force her to do anything ever. I really adore this girl and basically yes I do need to get this off my chest. I dont expect her to change, just for me. She is so beautiful with that amazing smile and gorgeous eyes. She truly is one of a kind. Just by looking at her and hearing talk makes me fall for her over and over. I know theres really nothing I can do about it but I would just like her to know my feelings. I would never do anything that makes her uncomfortable or hurts her. She is very special to me.
     
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    Yes I am afraid of those things but I'd rather tell her and be open and honest with her. I dont think I'd really lose her. It itll, hopefully, either be we remain friends with no awkwardness or she'll return the feelings. I dont expect anyone to change especially for me. I love her dearly and want all the best and happiness for her. I guarantee we'll laugh about this later no matter the outcome. THANK YOU ALL FOR THE SUPPORT. YOU ALL ARE AMAZING.
     
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    Much luck to you!!
     
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    Thank you so much
     

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