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Urgent! First Date!!

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by JJ!27, Dec 5, 2018.  |  Print Topic

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  1. JJ!27

    JJ!27 Greenhorn
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    Nov 11, 2018
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    okay so i reallyyyyy like this girl and she's so pretty and funny and we are very alike and we met on tinder but she lives 45 minutes away. We are meeting up for the first time on Friday (2 days from now) and we are kind of deadlocked on what to do. Do we meet halfway, in a town we don't know well? Do we meet in each others town? if so then who's town? where do we go to eat? what could we do besides eat?? and im also having my own worries like what if i promise this whole day to hanging out with her but turns out i don't like her? Idk i would love an outside view of this and how to do this safely and how to make it fun. I care about her a lot already and i want to start this off right
  2. Being.
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    Sep 18, 2016
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    I would suggest meeting at a Cafe in either of yours town. Whoever is more willing to travel. Cafe's are rather neutral places and have lots of people around. If you feel uncomfortable you can just leave and go somewhere else alone.
    If you both like each other in person then you can go from there, maybe go to a park for a walk and a talk, or to a movie theatre?
    I'm not too sure on date ideas either or what you have locally. But don't try to rush anything, keep it relaxed and just go with the flow. Be yourself and don't try too hard.
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  3. Melbr

    Melbr Looking for My One-finding Friends along the way.
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    Dec 2, 2018
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    JJ!27 How did your meetup go?

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