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Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by oldsouleviltwin, Dec 3, 2019.  |  Print Topic

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  1. oldsouleviltwin

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    I’ve been struggling a lot lately. I came out in May and thought that maybe now was the time I could finally have a girlfriend since I could be my true self. I’m 23 and that’s what I want so badly, never been in a relationship with anyone, gold star lesbian kind of thing. I tried dating apps but everyone seemed to be flaky and ghost me and such. Plus there’s a limited supply of lesbians in my town as it is. I fell in love with a girl this summer who I thought could really be my chance at happiness. She kissed me, said she was attracted to me, constantly flirted with me, we talked all the time. Only problem is when I finally told her that I really wanted to go out with her she said she can’t see herself being with a girl (yep- she’s straight supposedly and broke my heart in the process). Now I can’t think of being with anyone but her and it’s been months, I should get over her but tbh I loved her and it’s just hard. I don’t know what to do anymore. Just so lonely and sad.
     
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    welcome, your situation is totally understandable, but since there is no chance with that girl, u must move on...be open to new dates and things will go well
     
  3. BigMT

    BigMT R.O.U.S....I don't think they exist
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    Girl you have to let it go. I have had the same issues with dating sites and live in a place that is limited too. It's very easy to fall for unavailable people when no one is available to you. I eco mike300
     
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    If you follow this advice you could be greatly reducing your chances of finding love. As a forever pansexual (not a sometimes lesbian) I would be off the menu, and I’m pretty great. Ok, that’s a joke, but seriously that opinion is misguided in my view, and a touch offensive (no one likes to be stereotyped, least of all on this forum.) I hope you don’t think I’m disregarding your view in any way, but I do respectfully disagree, as a pansexual who is faithful to a fault and who is very unlikely to “return” to the “lesser” sex.
     

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