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Bisexual Strong preference to one sex?

Discussion in 'Bisexual & Pansexual' started by 5%gay, Feb 14, 2020.  |  Print Topic

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  1. 5%gay

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    Is it possible to be bisexual with a strong preference to one sex? Or would you consider that to lean more towards ace? I am seeking meaning in my sexuality but am a bit confused about it. I sort of wish there was a word for it but often feel like there are too many words. Lol.

    I am very much into men but I think I’m very rare situations I am capable of falling in love with and sleeping with a woman.

    Anyone else experiencing this?
     
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    Yes it is possible I am Bi and into guys more but still like girls
     
  3. josu

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    you seem like me and my wife. we're pretty straight, but we've each had enjoyable gay sex before. we like to say that we're each a little queer.
     
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    Yes, definitely. I lean more towards being lesbian, but do still love my husband and enjoy sex with men, though I preferred sex with women. :) 
    --- Double Post Merged, Feb 14, 2020 ---
    That's awesome! :) 
     
  5. 5%gay

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    Thanks guys. I guess I finally know that I’m bisexual. I finally figured it out at the age of 29. Haha. Who knew? I guess I learned something about myself today!
     
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    Yes I’m definitely more into women and very heterosexual really but I have a part of me that find men sexually attractive so it’s definitely not a 50/50 split.
     
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    Haha. I'm 50 and just starting to work it out.

    I've always thought that I was straight but a bit effeminate. I'm working out now that I'm bi, but not sure how much.

    I've never been with a guy and not really pursuing it. I think maybe I'm 20% gay and 80% straight. My therapist told me she thinks I'll settled down to about 80% gay and 20% straight. I told a female friend this, she said, 'well, I'm bi and so is my husband'.

    Just by realising and accepting it about myself, and telling a couple of key/close friends, I feel a lot better about myself. More confident, less social anxiety. It has been an interesting journey so far. Good luck with yours.
     
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    Yes this is very possible. I am pansexual but constantly get anxious that I am straight due to my high preference for girls (60% to 30% ). Even tho I think about girls and guys constantly I still question it. So yes it’s very possible
     
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    yes, its very possible...i m more into guys but i admire and am attracted to women too
     
  10. bi-fi signal
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    yea im bi but i prefer girls slightly over guys. like a 3.5 on the kinsey scale
     
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    Of course! Everyone has preferences,right now I do feel a preference to girls, and that's fine.
     
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    I prefer women, by a lot
     
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    I prefer girls over men most of the time. I'm not sexually attracted to most men (while I am sexually attracted to most women.) I don't think I could ever fall in love with a man. In fact, there are times when I don't feel attracted at all to guys, and other times I feel more attraction than usual, I guess it's a hormonal thing.
     
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    This post put into words exactly how I feel.Completely accurate, even down to the age...I didn't piece my feelings together until earlier this year...at age 29! Sometimes I wonder if I should have known sooner. Like there are phases in my life where I was only attracted to men, then a mix of men and women. do you think levels of attraction can change over time?
     
  15. bi-fi signal
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    yes, im bi and i used to prefer guys over girls, but now its the other way around
     

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