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Bisexual Someone tell me what the hell is going on please

Discussion in 'Questioning & General LGBT' started by HappyToBIMe123, Aug 15, 2019.  |  Print Topic

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    HappyToBIMe123 Grand King of The Apple Juices.
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    I went to a movie with my straight friend yesterday and it was one of my best moments in my life. But.... here’s the issue.... He’s straight and I’m a guy (obviously). Now for anyone who knows me knows I’m a bisexual thats’s had some ups and downs. I now have some issues that I would like to discuss. I am Dealing with some inner turmoil right now that is making me confused and annoyed. I couldn’t stop looking at him and every time I looked at him I got nervous. Idk what to do about this. Am I gay? because when I felt I was bi I felt both sides, but now I don’t feel anything for woman. Please let me know thank you.
     
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    Sounds like to me your discovering your true self
     
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    Or you can still be bisexual but you find your friend attractive, and like a lot of bisexual people whose feelings between the sexes varies from time to time, you are currently more attracted to men than women
     
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    Jessica45 Bisexual mtf. Slightly insane
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    It’s not unusual. I’m bi and I’ve had to fight the urge to kiss a couple of straight friends. I’ve been very attracted to a couple of guy friends but I’m still bisexual
     
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    Spend a lot of time with a girl, take her to a movie, etc., and compare notes. Sorta joking here, but not really, I mean, you were in the moment, the mood, whatever. It could be that there is no girl in your life right now that turns your crank, and he does, or you want him too. I think this requires further investigation. ;) 
     
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    There's a thread going on about bisexual people experiencing phases. Basically, it's quite normal to have fluctuations in your attraction to males and females.
     
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    HappyToBIMe123 Grand King of The Apple Juices.
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    I know you are all right but I don’t feel like it’s worth it, he thinks be lgbt is wrong and he knows about my bisexuality but he has no idea that I like him. Idk what to do. This is so stressful.
     
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    I feel your pain! I’ve been in love with people when it wasn’t mutual (actually, I was too much of a chicken to tell them so have no idea if that’s true,) and it’s like the worst kind of heartache. Especially remaining in close proximity to them and keeping your attraction secret.

    Could it be that your attraction to this guy is eclipsing all feelings for anyone else, since your heart is set on him? Oftentimes the heart and head don’t see eye to eye on matters of attraction. It may be worth seeing other people in a romantic setting and see if you can get sparks flying


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    Well see there is this other friend of mine who is also straight and I believe The feelings I have for my other friend is making my brain substitute him in my other friend. This is stressful.
     

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