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Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by Brokensoul, Oct 12, 2017.  |  Print Topic

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  1. Brokensoul
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    Ok so here's what's happening, my mother is coming home to visit this weekend and I haven't seen her in like 2 years but I also haven't really talked to her much over the phone in the past year as well which could be a bit of a problem because she Will definitely be mad. That doesn't really matter, my question is should I come out to her? For some reason I feel like I really should but I don't know how. Anyways if anyone knows what I should do or how I could come out please just say.
     
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    Hello and welcome..
    "Should you come out to her?"
    I think you'll have to see the dynamic of this newly rekindled relationship first..?

    What i'n saying is..
    There is a possibility circumstances might make it easy... or.. You might have to wait a bit.

    I hope your reunion goes well..
    Keep us posted.
     
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    So coming out to your mom is more important then even having a strong relationship with her? You didn't see your own mother in 2 years and you didn't takl to her too much... Shame.
     
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    Oh the stupidity of some people makes me question how humanity got this far. Kamil about asking why I want to come out to her before applying shame. The reason I want to come out is because I feel like if I do it will make this bit of better trust and help make our relationship stronger. Also one last thing don't assume that I cared more about coming out then making the relationship stronger, the only reason I didn't mention anything about it was because it wasn't quite on the topic of the question.
     
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    Play it by ear and it may not be the best time to come out to her. As you mentioned, she'll be upset/angry so work through that first. See how the weekend goes, but honestly you may have to wait to tell her another time. Just enjoy the weekend with her and have fun.
     
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    yeah i think i'll just wait it out and just have a good weekend.
     

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