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Bisexual New here and a little nervous

Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself' started by Monicat, Jan 18, 2021.  |  Print Topic

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  1. Monicat

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    Hi... I'm new here and no one knows I'm bi. This is pretty much my first declaration. Can anyone relate?
     
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  2. starlightprincess

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    Hi! We are so happy to have you here<3 Don't worry, there are several of us that are still closeted ourselves in our personal lives. Its nothing to be ashamed of, nobody here is going to judge you for it.
     
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    Hello and welcome.
     
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    Hi and welcome :)  there is no pressure on anyone here. We are a pretty chilled bunch xx
     
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    Im closeted to about 90% of the people in my life. Its just easier to keep it that way in my life.
    You definitely dont have to worry about any judgement here on this site.
    Hope to see you around more.

    I do just want to add that the fear of coming out is usually much worse then the actual coming out. But everyones circumstances are different.
     
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    Nice to meet you welcome to our community :) 
    I hope you find what your looking for
     
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    Welcome to a safe and wonderful place.

    Glad you found and are embracing YOU.

    Enjoy this site.

    Be you and be strong - Jo
     
  8. Birdwatcher87
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    Hi Monicat!

    I know exactly how you feel. I realized I was bi just a few years ago, but had indications throughout my life that I might have feelings for guys. I’ve only come out to myself, but I don’t know when I’ll tell someone, but I feel really good about who I am and that I can have feelings for both genders!

    Always be you and take your time, there is no set time to come out or even come out at all. It’s what makes you and your heart feel the best! Welcome to a warm and great community here! :) 
     
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    I was in the same boat a couple of years ago. I just rejoined the forum but this is where I initially reached out on for support. I think you will find there are a decent amount of people that share your feelings on here, it might take you a bit to find people you connect really well with idk it was for myself but it was through making those supportive connections that helped give me the courage to not hide my feelings. Hopefully that will happen for you too.
     
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    Welcome and I know how you must be feeling. I joined this forum a month ago and have been fearful of telling anyone. I have made some new friends here who accept me for who I am! So do t be afraid to reach out, send a message or whatever!


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  11. Gab-bi

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    Welcome Monicat!

    You’ve come to the right place.

    I’ve realised I’m bi a little over a year ago now, and I’m only out to a select group of people.
    It really helps to have a safe place to talk about this.
    This is a great forum, no judgement and a lot of people that can relate to your situation.

    Feel free to message me anytime
     
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    Hello! welcome <3
     
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    Hello and welcome here ) I am glad you could confess and did your coming out here! I'm proud! Wish you find here good friends)
     

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