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  1. stock10
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    So whilst I'm home for Easter I was wanting to come out to my mum. Having been with guys before I feel like I need to but also I want to for myself.
    Anyway, I'm struggling with how to bring it up. Is it always the sit down and "I have something to tell you" conversation? How did you bring it up?
     
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    It is different for everyone. Personally, I told my mum that I was going out, and left a letter explaining. She messaged me immediately after reading it and told me she loved me and nothing would change.
    Once I got back we talked for a few hours, for a in-depth understanding on both our sides.
     
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    Jax Fiorella Once you question your own belief, it's over
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    Sox is right. its different for everyone. Just a piece of advice: make sure that they are ready to hear it. If telling them jeopardizes something else that's important to you, I wouldn't tell them. With that out of the way, My personal experience never included saying "there's something I need to tell you". I just said it. but like Sox said, its different for everyone and everyone is going to take it differently. pm me if you wanna talk
     

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