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Gay Need Advice

Discussion in 'Gay' started by LuckyBoyKyle, Oct 8, 2018.  |  Print Topic

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  1. LuckyBoyKyle

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    I'm Trying to come out to family and friends, but not exactly sure if they will be accepting. Need some advice
     
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    Do you need to come out?
    I mean. If they aren't accepting then why even tell them?.
    If you and your bf are happy and don't live at home then just keep doing what you're doing.
     
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    I feel that I do have to come out as I hate hidding stuff from my family and friends and I would like them to know I'm gay. If they aren't accepting then I will have no contact will them at all as there are people who will accept me for who I am, but I'll never know if they are accepting if I don't tell them.
     
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    Then just come out and tell them. I told my
    Family because I couldn't hide it anymore even though I knew they'd react badly. I just had to get it out.

    So just tell them. And if they react bad just go no contact like you said.
     
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    I'm tell them then!
     
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    It may be easier to pick of few who are easiest to talk to, tell them, and let them know it's OK to tell others. There's no need to conduct a plenary session.
     
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    I will do that, Thanks for the advice!
     

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