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Adult Content Late bloomers? How were your orgasms in your straight relationships?

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    Were they less intense because of the emotional aspect?

    I want to know if it's true that you cannot climax "properly" when you have sex with someone you aren't attracted to
     
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    What do you call a straight relationship?
     
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    A m/f relationship
     
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    Male - Sex and female sex
    or
    Male - sex/female gender and female sex/gender.

    I could go on.

    This is a queer site you know :) 
     
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    I can't climax at all with someone I'm not attracted to. I'm old school, but I need both physical attraction and an emotional connection before I even want to have sex with someone. Before I realized I was a woman, I was strongly attracted exclusively to women and that's still the case, so my climaxes were good back then, as long as the emotional connection was there.

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    What does ‘ properly’ mean ? Porn like screams of delight?

    Women’s orgasms are all over the map, big, small, intense, not so.

    Orgasms originate in the brain and being attracted to someone is key. I wouldn’t go to bed with someone I wasn't attracted to anyway so that weeds out the duds right there.
     
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    That's why I wrote properly in quotation marks. "Properly" means in a real way, and so it feels pleasurable for you, intense and satisfying
     
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    Yes!! Emotional connection is super important. For me, anyway.
    Lots of love ❤️
     

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