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  1. Being.
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    So uh.
    Is anyone ever worrier about making the person they are with feel bad about thier... Uh size?
    I always considered myself to be very average. But most guy I've been with so far have actually been smaller than me.
    I'm worried I'll make them feel insecure or bad being bigger.
    I'm also typically a bottom. So I feel like I should be taking a more active role since I'm bigger.
    If this ever comes up how should I deal with it?
     
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    Ok just to ask but how many inches is “it” you can dm me if u don’t want the world to c. An American average is actually about 5-6 inches. And ok this is weird but be proud of ur “piece” big or small
     
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    Being. You're probably in a huge minority with this. Many guys on the hookup sites and apps specify a size that excludes anyone smaller than upper average and some will even refuse you if you show up and it doesn't measure up.

    Everything you need to know about penis size:
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size
     
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    I had to jump in on this thread! I am of average size, and from my experience over the years I have never been concerned about "it" being too big or too small. I have had the attitude- "its not the size that matters, its how you use it". If a male feels inferior to his manhood then he will perform inferior. Males and females alike if NOT shallow humans will enjoy being with you, regardless of size. There is MUCH more to a person than the size of an organ! A man can have a huge "manhood" and have a very small brain to hold a tiny attitude. ;-)
     
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    My favorite answer to the question when I'm asked is, "My penis is the size like a Greek God's."

    In other words, it is not impressive.
     
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    I hate that guys even have this issue and I find every size queen I've ever known has proven to be shallow individuals period. I'm slightly below average, think Michelangelo's David, and I feel that I'm reasonably adequate at using it even if I would prefer to have the genitals of the fairer sex.

    Size shouldn't dictate position preference. The largest guy I've ever been with was a bottom and he was very well hung ie 10 inches. The best top I've ever been with was average.

    If a guy has an issue with your size and thinks that should dictate positions then either do what he wants or ask to do what you want either way communication is key. Most of all just be safe and have fun.
     
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    I think most people who have reached the age of dating will have had a good number of years of knowing they have a small dick to start getting offended by it.

    One of my friends has a tiny dick and whilst I found it a bit awkward to give him a handjob once, he does not seem too bothered and goes for it bottom or top quite readily (not with me). You can only go with what you've got at the end of the day.
     
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    I’ve never been with a man that way, but I found my modest size to be an advantage when having anal sex with women
     
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    In my experience with the 2 boyfriends I had before I got married is that most men aren't huge & 5 inches in usable length is about it. The girth, particularly of circumcised men tends to make the difference in "fit" if you will
     
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    Can anyone convert the inch to centimeters? I am from Europe and specifically from Greece. For example, how many inches is 17 cm? I'm not saying size matters, I ask from simple curiosity ;) 
     
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    it's slightly over 6 3/4 inches
     
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    It was enjoying to read these posts. :‌))
     
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    The idea that "bigger is better" is quite relative. I' am a top who ocasionally likes to bottom, but I could never really enjoy it because I feel a lot of pain with large-normal sized dicks. My boyfriend is almost 5 inches and, what can I say, we fit together quite well.
     
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    I'm not fussed on size. My partner is really well endowed, and I only found that out after the third date. I've been with guys who are huge and don't know what to do with it, guys who are huge and know what to do, guys who are small and made me orgasm ridiculously hard, and guys who are small that did nothing for me. It all depends on what you're doing and if you know how to work it.
     
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    I think it's kinda funny how everyone went on a personal tangent and completly ignored my question xD
     
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    I don't think it would ever actually come up as an issue, but if you're bottoming and they get weird about it, just say that they need to be more confident with their dick.
     
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    I’m around 8 inches and so scared that nobody will want me to top them if it’s too big. Then on the other hand I worry about bottoming hurting too much. I may as well just become a monk
     
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    I'll join
     
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    I'm on the lower spectrum of average, and am always happy to have a partner that is a little larger. cause hell I get to enjoy it ! But I'm not in any way a size queen. There I would have to agree that they sometimes seem shallow . So no, I don't think it should make them feel inadequate. So if you're ever in the states.... Haha. Peace all!
     
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    I will definetly consider it :p 
     

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