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Is something wrong with me?

Discussion in 'Agender/Non-Binary/Fluid' started by WhatsWrongWithMe, Feb 22, 2021.  |  Print Topic

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  1. WhatsWrongWithMe

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    I feel like somethings wrong with me...so, I was born female and I thought I fully identified that way and that I was cisgender. However, I don’t like she/her pronouns all the time, some days I’m okay with them but other days I feel like they don’t fit me. I wanted to try they/them pronouns because I wanted to experiment and see what fitted - and I really like being referred to that way. But I also like he/him pronouns some of the time, but I never get referred to as those because I don’t pass as masculine but I like the pronouns being used for me.

    So I like all pronouns and feel masc and fem and androgynous. However, the term gender fluid doesn’t feel right.

    I also get envy from male characters a lot? Especially if I relate to them, but it’s stronger because I want to be them if that makes sense? I’m jealous of their look and gender? It’s normally it they’re male or non-binary/a gender etc.

    There’s more I could talk about but I don’t want to ramble on too long so if there’s any questions or anything that could help in any way that would be great. Thank you!
     
  2. Hayden Kun
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    Hmmm, sounds like your tri gender. My sister/brother/person is also tri gender and Genderfluid. Some days she/he/they are girly, masculine, or feeling non-binary (idk what the term is but, yea you get what I mean).
     
  3. gremlinz

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    What's "wrong" is you focus on gender ideology too much. Focus on living your life—job, school, hobbies, friends, whatever—instead. You don't have to decide on preferred pronouns.
     
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