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Is he trying to pick me up?

Discussion in 'Gay' started by Newest64, Sep 15, 2018.  |  Print Topic

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    I Am a postman and I had a business owner today say out of the blue you’ve lost a lot of weight and you look good. I felt as if he was trying to pick me up. Do I make conversation?
     
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    Maybe he's just observant.
    I've had straight guys comment on my looks and mean absolutely nothing by it.
    If he doesn't give the vibe that he's gay I'd say it's just a compliment.
    Maybe try subtly commenting on him next time and see how he reacts, or just ask him out. Then you know for sure.
     
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    I said pretty much the same thing to a guy I know from the dog park the other day, because it was true, and I wanted him to feel good about it -- but I don't feel any attraction towards him at all. Sometimes a compliment is just a compliment.

    Of course, it never hurts to make conversation. If nothing else, it might get you a larger Christmas present.
     
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    I know he is gay and he has that vibe
     
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    if you know he's gay and he interests you, go right ahead and flirt -- see what happens. Just don't assume that a compliment has to be flirting. See how he responds to some double entendres -- that's always fun!
     

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