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Bisexual I'm questioning my sexuality

Discussion in 'Bisexual & Pansexual' started by Bali, Apr 9, 2020.  |  Print Topic

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    Hi, I'm new here. I'm 22 and I would like to talk to people my age or older. I've been into men until now, I've always dated men. I had experienced some little sexy things with a few women but never slept with. Though, I don't know if it's the lockdown, but I'm thinking more and more about women and even fantasy them sometimes. I don't know wether I'm an open-minded heterosexual girl or a real bisexual...
     
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    welcome to the forum! this is a good place to explore those feelings. there are no hard and fast rules about this kind of thing. i'm basically straight with a queer side. i have enjoyed gay sex when i was younger. now i'm in a monogamous relationship with my wife, and we have a decent sex life even after over a decade together. i find my desire for gay sex comes and goes in waves. ultimately how you identify is up to you. cheers!
     
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    Hey Bali, welcome!=) You're always welcome to message me whenever you'd like. We are all very nice and accepting here so I am sure you will have no problem making friends. I do understand growing up for most of your life thinking you were only into guys, I thought the same thing till I realized at 24 that I was Bi and had spent nearly all our friendship in love with my best friend lol. It CAN happen that you find out later. In my situation though, when I look back, there were hints throughout my life that I was not exclusively straight, I just didn't understand at the time.
     
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    Thanks Josu! Like you, I can experience those feelings times to times, it goes in waves. But I'm pretty sure I would love sex with women but I'm not sure I could develop a sentimental relationship with a woman.
     
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    Welcome to the fourm
     
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    Hi welcome I am Bi ive never been with a guy but still know I like both. Being Bisexual is just who your attracted too
     
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    Hi!
    I am 23 years old and until last year I thought the same. I fell in love with a girl that I meet in July, we had some moments together but never a romantic relationship or sex. I still like this girl but we are only friends now. I am not saying that this could be the case for you but remember love comes at any moment. Take care and if you need to talk you can always contact me!


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    Thank you :)  I kind of feel the same as you
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    Thank you Leticia for sharing your story :)  It's good to know I'm not alone to feel this way
     
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    I get it can be confusing! Well, how you identify is up to you. However, if you do feel attraction for more than one gender, even if you have a strong preference for boys, that would still "qualify" as bisexual. Bisexuality is not about being 50-50. It's more feeling attraction, to whatever degree, for you own gender and for others.
     
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    Thank you very much for your comment. It enlightens me a lot :) 
    That's the question I was wondering
     
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    I feel you there! I've been only dating boys but I also just recently acknowledge that I'm attracted to the same gender. I was really confused at first when I started to feel all the weird feels in my stomach when I'm near this girl I thought who was really attractive. I have always noticed that even when I dated boys I also like looking at pretty girls, too. I always kept it to myself because I was brought up in a religious and conservative environment.
     
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    Hi Bali, I am the same as you, except in male form. I am only interested in women emotionally, but I like having sex with Men and Women. It's just who I am. I am a "2" on the Kinsey scale.
     

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