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I’m in an odd situation

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    So basically I have had a crush on this guy for a good while and today he says to my best friend right behind me that I’m one of the few people he would go gay for (he’s known to be bi and doesn’t know I like guys) but he then finished his statement by saying “but he would never be into that” I dunno what to do and ever since then I’ve become a nervous blushing mess
     
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    I'd say you should talk to him about it - he's bi so he should be accepting of your sexuality. Confide in him and see what he says, and if you feel really comfortable with his response, you could also tell him that you like him. It seems like you might have a chance, but obviously you can't be certain. You could also try asking him if he meant what he said as a way of leading into revealing either of these things.
     
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    Totally agree
     
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    This is a really good advice, might use it on my situation (even tho it's quite different). so thanks a bunch
     
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    Aww, thanks. It's nice to know I've helped. What is your situation?
     
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    i started having a friend i felt really comfortable with, more comfortable than how i am with most people. And he's basically the better version of me in every way possible. i started feeling something (still trying to work out if it's admiration or an actual feeling of attraction, i am still rly bad at this). I am also really confused if the way he treats me is just because i am his good friend or the fact that there's something else that he's trying to say (whether he's just being nice to a friend or actually trying to give me hints and such). I guess my situation is more towards the "We don't fucking know what is happening right now" kind of vibe instead of the more blatant one than cook's problem

    If you'd like to know more about what i am going through concerning the more finding out who i am shit then please check this post of which i just ranted a whole bunch about first world problems that i am facing: https://lgbtchat.net/threads/growing-up-family-stuff.57943/#post-241919

    And more of how i am confused on my own sexuality in this post:https://lgbtchat.net/threads/hello-can-you-please-tell-me-your-stories.57777/#post-241793

    I would highly appreciate your advice and support, thanks again
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