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I am Gay and i am so alone.

Discussion in 'Gay' started by DynamiteDandy, Mar 28, 2018.  |  Print Topic

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  1. DynamiteDandy

    DynamiteDandy Fried bird tits

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    I don't know how to tell my family, my friends know they just don't say anything. This is my first time reaching out.
     
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    mask1985 Shy bi guy
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    Hi DynamiteDandy - welcome, hope you make some friends here. Is your reluctance to tell your family because you think they may not understand or be supportive?
     
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    We'll certainly offer whatever help we can. Tell us something about your family, and we may have some ideas for a good approach to telling them.

    When you say your "friends don't say anything," are you saying they know you're gay but they pretend that you're straight? That would be a situation one doesn't run into very often.
     
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    Hi hi! I'm always around to talk and give advice!
     
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    its too late for me to advise you speaking it in april fools day.

    there is no manual for how to say it in your family, just do it.
    its easier said than done right? were here for you =)
     
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    Ronald Angel Hi!!! I'm looking new friends around the would.

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    Hi friend!!! Don't feel alone please, many people as you and me have been in that situation but the best matter is you are honest with you then when you feel the moment to talk with your family you'll do it. you may trust everything is gonna be so fine. ;) 
     
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    I recommend only coming out if you feel safe, to people you feel safe with. There is no hurry to come out. You never have to come out if you choose not to. I have only come out to a couple of close friends, and they were ok with it. You will be the same person no matter what you do.
     
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    LittleGnome Literally Medusa's good twin sister/brother
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    When you feel comfortale is when is best, when you do, bring somebody with you you really trust so you dont feel as alone in telling them that way you are extremely calm about it externally and partially internally
     
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    coming out doesnt solve the problem, it can even cause more problems. but it depends on your personality. you can still be alone when you come out. the mistake which most gays do is they focus on their sexuality too much. many people dont even care about your sexuality. you have to come up with your character, not sexulaity. people will like you or not like you depending on how you behave
     
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    I kinda wish the original poster would come back so we can talk to him and make him less alone
     

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