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Heey, I'm Sam

Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself' started by just_Sam, Jun 11, 2019.  |  Print Topic

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  1. just_Sam

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    Hey, I'm Sam,

    (sorry if my english isn't that good, I'm German lol)

    I hope this is the right place to talk about my problems. I just need something or someone who helps me finding myself.

    About me:

    - I'm Pansexual and currently identify as ftm transgender.

    - I've told three of my best friends about my sexuality and my gender (but my sexuality isn't that important to me at the moment), but I haven't told anyone else and certainly not my family. That's why I currently still live as a woman.

    I ended up in this forum because it's just hard for me right now. I can't be myself and I'm constantly wondering if I'm trans enough or what would happen if I'm wrong.
    It's so hard to come out as a "man". I don't know if everybody would understand it and I can't hide something like this because I have to change physically to fully become "me".
    Living as a "woman" just feels horribly wrong.

    Maybe I'll find someone here who gives me advice.


    Sam
     
  2. Jo A
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    Welcome to a safe place to be you and not be judged.

    There will be lots of nice people coming along in the near future.

    I am transgender/non binary - male by sex and lean to female for gender.

    I spend a lot of time lately in woman's tops, earrings and perfume.

    I get my nails done and my wife now said I could shop for her.

    I have no plans to transition and there are days I am male feeling for gender and dress that part.

    I started accepting myself a year ago and came out over 9 months ago to my staff, coworkers, and family.

    I will tell you it is hard but you must accept who and what you are and love that. You can than let the world see that wonderful person.

    Hope this helps - Be you and be strong.

    Long soft hug
     
  3. curiousdud3

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    Welcome Sam

    Sent from my Nokia 6.1 using Tapatalk
     
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    Welcome the the forum Sam! :) 
     

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