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hard to find a date and depression

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  1. vesta91

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    so i've downloaded grindr and most guys just want sex.. hard to find a date. and if i do talk to a guy who isn't into hook ups, i feel there is no interest from his part. i try to keep conversation flowing..but it eventually dies cause i get short responses and no questions in return so i assume there is no interest and i get tired of sustaining the convo. anyone relate? i also tried this with okc.maybe im the problem and have to do introspection, maybe my communication skills suck? im just tired of the loneliness and i feel this is the main reason why im depressed. i dont see a point to life if i cant share it with friends and or a special someone. ive been cheated on in the past, and other personal things and im just hopeless but desperate for connection.
     
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    Being. Takodana Takeover
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    I feel the same
     
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    Grindr really is dedicated to hookups, but local LGBT organizations often offer social opportunities of different kinds. Meeting people face-to-face, perhaps several times outside the "dating" context, might lead to something that lasts awhile.
     

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