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First experience with a girl

Discussion in 'Bisexual & Pansexual' started by lili241253, Sep 17, 2020.  |  Print Topic

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    Hey!
    So here’s the thing : I’ve always been attracted to both girls and guys since a young age. But I don’t know why girls scare me and I’ve never been able to be completely myself or confident when it comes to talking to women I am attracted to.
    I’ve been on a few dates but when I told them I’ve never had any « « « real » » » lesbian experience, they all told me that I probably was just experiencing or that they wanted someone experienced and not being my « first time » = we never went further.
    It doesn’t help me being more confident and I don’t know how to overcome that. I’m also wandering if I should tell the girl I’m talking to than I’m not experienced.
    Have you ever been in that case or do you have any tips for me ?
    Thank you in advance <3
     
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    Yes I'm nervous around girls the last one I talked to I spilled her drink all over her lol
    I think Bei open and honest with the girl your talking to would be the best idea.
    Don't worry you'll find like yourself that is inexperienced too and you can grow together I know it may feel like your the only one but I assure you they are out there
     
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    A first time is always scary, and I think it helps if the other person knows. Too bad you haven’t found the right person yet.

    Depends on what we’re talking about though.
    Is it about sex, or also about kissing/making out.
    Do you have experience with a man or is it your very first time?

    Kissing a girl is not that different from kissing a boy, so I probably wouldn’t bother on telling it’s the first time for that.
     
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    Thanks for sharing your story as well ! We’ve all been there spilling drinks on dates haha
    This is what I’m thinking too, definitely be honest about it !
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    I’ve been in relationships with boys because I’ve always found myself way more confident around them...
    I’m more talking about the sexual aspect of it and all the questions we have before the first times like is it going to work, am I good enough, I know nothing and she will notice and leave etc etc
    But yes I definitely think I should be opened about that and tell her!
     
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    I'm glad I know I'm not the only spilling drinks on girls lol
     
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    be yourself and you ll find the right girl for u...when u will kiss her, u will discover that no experiance is needed
     

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