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Bisexual Figuring out my sexuality

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  1. Amber11

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    Hi everyone, my name is Amber and I’m 23 years old. Due to a few circumstances this last year, I’ve been thinking about my sexuality more often. When I was 15, I had a relationship with my best friend at that time. However, I’ve never thought about myself as gay during that relationship. She brought up her feelings for me and I was scared of losing her. Not the best reason to start a relationship. After that, I haven’t thought about women anymore and all of my other relationships have been with men. But recently I feel a sexual attraction towards women more often these days.

    Sometimes I think, since I know I like men, why not keep it ‘simple’ and just let it go? Other times I just really want to figure out how I really feel towards women and see what could happen. So I’m not 100% sure if I’m really bisexual, or that I just have a sexual attraction towards women instead of romantically, so that doesn’t really help with coming out as well.

    Love to read about your stories to figure mine out and maybe chat a little about it. Advice is always welcome :) 
     
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    Hello Amber11

    confusing isn’t it?

    I’m glad you’ve found this site. There are lots of people here who understand your situation, as I do. Here you’ll be able to make a few lovely, understanding friends too.

    Nice to meet you,
    Hugs
    JC :) 
     
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    Hey Amber, Im simular age and simular story I think. It seems people on this site are very kind and understanding. Sexuality is so confusing but your definiately not alone. Glad to meet you!

    -Niko
     
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    Thank you for your responses. Wasn’t sure if I would really participate on this, but I’m glad I did. It’s nice to see I’m not alone in this.
    Nice to meet you too! :) 
     

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