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Do any other femme bi ladies on her only get attracted to other femme girls?

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    I identify as a blue jeans/femme bi and only ever get attracted to other femme ladies (whether they be bi straight or lesbian) does anyone else? Am I weird?
     
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    I do too but I just deal with it since finding what your sexuality is actually complicated. Roll through it that's my advice.
     
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    I've only known I was bi for the past 7 years find you so it's early days for me yet, how long have you known?
     
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    Yeah I def. relate very much. I’m the most girly person on earth lol, and I am also attracted to feminine ladies.
     
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    I'm like this . Only attracted to femme.
     
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    That seems perfectly normal to me. I love blue jean femmes a lot actually because they’re femme without being hyper feminine which is too much for me personally. I’m also a blue jean femme.
     
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    Yes I know what you mean, I'm not a girly girl per-se. I don't do flowers, dresses or bows ect! I don't mind ladies who do though.
     
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    That's like everything I wear everyday of my life lol=)
     
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    Good for you.
     
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    Yeah same. I don’t really wear dresses or skirts except occasionally. I mostly wear jeans and a T-shirt. I have short hair. I’m more femme in behavior in some ways then I am in looks. I’m very emotional, I like cuddling up on the couch with a candle, a book. I do love nice flowers. Stuff like that. I guess I have womanly attributes in terms of what I want from a partner, how I live my life. I want someone to nurture and be nurtured in return.
     
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    Yes!! I am down to Earth type femme. I like to be casual but not overly so. I have long curly hair and like to wear makeup and just look nice and put together. I currently have a huge crush on my kid's figure skating coach who is just a stunning woman! Oh my gosh!

    All my crushes except one have been on very feminine women. And the one who wasn't was very feminine in her personality.

    I also want to say I'm finally coming to grips with my sexuality at 45. I have been in and out if you will. I have come completely out with my crush, she knows my feelings for her and it gets more complicated and heart breaking, but anyway... Here I am :) 
     
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    OMG Wow, I have a thing for a female figure skating coach as well omg! I'm also 43 nearly 44, wow weird is that?! I haven't come out to everyone yet, wondering if and when should, that'll be another post though.
     
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    Haha! Love it!

    Being a skate mom, skating is my life. I say that Skate Mom's are always Cool! LOL! And I am a dork because I laugh at my own jokes.

    Anyway, you have totally piqued my curiosity, you skate. What level are you at? My kids are at Free style 1, pre free and level 6. I have never been on the ice. I just have 3 out of the 4 pull me around with them. :) 
     
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    omg I relate to that heaps. I'm very femme and bi and like generally very femme girls and for a while it always confused me like,, is that a thing? can a femme bi girl like other femme bi girls - but then I realised I need to accept my sexuality in full u know - but I totalllyyy relate
     
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    I'm a total girly girl who prefers other girly girls. lol Not that I have never been attracted to (or with) other types, like sporty or even some more 'butch' types, but just generally prefer those who are more feminine, like skirts/dresses, 'dolling' themselves up more, more femme hair, etc. :) 
     
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    i know many femmee girls who are attracted in other femme girls..so all ok
     
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    Sorry for the delay in responding to everyone but PTSD/CPTSD plus lockdown plus menopause frazzles my brain. Lorraine - I don't skate unfortunately, my joints are wrecked and now I have osteopenia among other things, I met this lady at an event. I'd love to skate always loved skating but can't sadly. It's ok being a dork, I'm similar I'm a geek! Hope there are more geeks on here, maybe I should start that up as a topic! Thanks for your responses everyone, nice to know I'm not alone. Stay safe xx
     

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