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Can two people of the same sex be happy?

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    A relationship of the same sex is common and slowly accepted in the society today. However, we cannot deny the fact that numerous people still see same sex couples with judging eyes. We are also human and thus, we deserve to be happy. But why can’t some people take that? I am a man myself but I fell in love with a foreign man. Don’t I deserve to be happy now because that’s immorality? What should I do if that’s what my heart speaks?
     
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    Everyone had different things that makes them happy, so I can't turn around and tell you that this won't make you happy because it's obviously not true.
    If it makes you happy go for it! That's what I say.
    If people can't take it...screw them!
    If you're happy, and you believe it's the right thing...then go ahead and do it.
    No one can stop you.
     
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    I think the secret to being a happy same sex couple is not caring what society says. Know some people are ignorant but don't let that ruin your happiness. Easier said than done though.
     
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    It's not immorality -- it's just biology. You didn't ask to be gay, you just happened to be born that way -- and everybody has a right to pursue happiness provided they're not harming others in the process. Listen to your heart -- it seems to know what's good for you!
     
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    There is an old saying: Try to make everyone happy - no one is happy. Try to make yourself happy - at least you're happy!
     
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    Of course they deserve to be happy. Unfortantly you will be judged by some people.

    But, that happens with everything you do.

    I would rather be happy and judged then not judged and miserable.

    There's are your two choices in most cases, do what makes you happy as long as you aren't causing harm to others or yourself.
     
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    I feel really assured and confident with your responses guys. I should never let their judgment dictate my identity and my happiness.
    --- Double Post Merged, Aug 7, 2018 ---
    Thank you everyone.
     
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