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black guys the most demanded??

Discussion in 'Gay' started by santosh909, Jul 10, 2019 at 12:34 AM.  |  Print Topic

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rate according to race

  1. 1>asian

  2. 2>latino

  3. 3>white

  4. 4>black

  5. 5>biracial/mixed

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  1. santosh909

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    i see this everywhere.. grindr, scruff, a4a, growlr...u name it. esp, from thirsty white bottoms.. big bbc +++ only looking for blacks , has to be big etc. are blacks the most in demand in the gay community??
     
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    Welcome to the forum. You have many people fetishising black men because we have been told that black men are the most well endowed. This idea isn't based in fact but is actually the result of racism.

    Starting in the 1700's after several centuries of enslaving people of African decent people started to actual see these enslaved people as people. So many scientist of the time started to study race. They came to the wrong conclusion. They came up with a bunch of hokum about why Europeans were "better" because God made them that way or later more "evolved". One of the ways was to make Africans seem less than human and one of the ways was to make them seem much more sexual than they were. "We have to control these people or else they will have sex with our wives and daughters", they thought.

    Spring forward several centuries and this idea of promiscuity developed into the idea of sexual prowess. These ideas in the modern era have fetishised Black men and Women and this isn't a good thing. There have been a few studies that indicate that men of African decent have larger erect penises but the difference isn't enough to matter. The study I'm referencing can be found here (http//www.nature.com/articles/s41443-017-0009-z) So the difference between a "white" man and a "black" man considering the average from each group the difference is little more than a 1/4 inch. Not that big of a difference.

    Men don't usual make a habit of looking at each other's junk past a certain age for fear of being thought of as "gay" even if they are gay or bi. Reason being that it wasn't safe for them to appreciate other men out of fear of being hurt by those men. So those young men turned to porn and the men in porn are usually far above average. So they get an unhealthy idea stuck in their head like either an obsession for well hung guys (which can hurt their chances of fun experiences because their partner isn't ideal) or become depressed because they don't measure up thus getting anxious about whether or not they can satisfy a man or woman. Usually a man's penis is more than enough to satisfy.

    I'm all for the appreciation of Black men or really any man but I think we would all be better off if we made it less about his penis and more about him.
     
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    I feel like we already have a great response ^, but I'll add:

    In South Africa this is less of a thing (as far as I can tell). Why? Not sure, but I suppose the larger cultural differences between our racial groups and more conservative communities that don't rreeeaaalllyyy approve of interracial relationships (not the case in our more liberal cities) are the leading cause.

    Sidenote: I can't speak for the gay community as my closet doors have been blocking my view :s
     
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    I’ve only experienced three different men, two white men and one black. The white guys were a little bigger. That doesn’t mean anything either. They were all great
     
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    all black i knew, had huge dicks
     
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    That story by santosh909; I heard it differently.
    Some 'scientists' back in the 1800's did a bunch or measuring and questioning and concluded that black people because of their mental and physical characteristics were better suited than other people to work in the fields.
    You know, kinda like how Guidance Counselors today decide what life profession is the best fit for you.
     
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    Those "scientists" tried to find a biological reason for people of African decent to need to be supervised and controlled. They tried to use science to make slavery and racism seem okay to the ignorant masses. They did this with other people as well. These ideas are still believed today by a minority of mostly ignorant people of "white" European decent. These wildly inaccurate pseudosciencetfic ideas were popular with the Nazi party and later white nationalist groups.
     

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