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  1. Noname23

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    Am I the only lesbian who does NOT like watching gay male porn?
    Like, on other forums I visit (that I won't mention) the vast majority of lesbians say they enjoy watching gay male porn. They also say that penises and erections turn them on and interest them.
    I don't have anything against these preferences... fantasies can be surprising. But I feel like I am the only lesbian who does not have any interest in gay male porn, and men in porn overall.

    Is there anybody else who's like me?
     
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    Hello there *raises hand* :) 
     
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    Not at all! I don't like men in real life (sexually I mean) so watching 2 men together does nothing for me. I was wondering the other day if gay men watch lesbian porn.

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    Welcome back from the alternate reality universe where lesbians apparently get aroused by the exact opposite of what defines them as lesbians in the first place. Then again, I've always found lesbians to be rather baffling. Hmm..that's probably too specific, I've always found humans to be rather baffling.
     
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    Uh, I mean, it's widely talked about that porn does not define your sexuality.

    Since I saw many people mentioning other websites, I can hint that the other forum was reddit.
     
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    I think its the same like some straight women prefer lesbians porn.
    i think it might be something psychological, i read one time that actually what turns on is something we learned as children fast majority of us grew up in straight households and had straight friends. So in the beginning of exploring our sexuality we attachEd certain things to The idea of being turned on. Maybe thats why those women get turned on by male bodies while watching porn. But that doesn't in anyway mean they would prefer to sleep with a man in real life. Same as liking rough sex or being tied up or blind folded or role plays. I think they are all psychological things.
     
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    No, I was never interested in gay male porn. I also never heard about other lesbians being interested in it.
     
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    Honestly I'm not "interested", just curious. I appreciate some of them but I don't feel the real need to watch them. Maybe it's just that if a porn is a good porn -like if it makes me feel as I want to feel in that moment- to me is a good porn to watch no matter what is in it (I mean.. legally talking of course)
    I don't find weird if a lesbian like to watch this porn category for the fact that our brain processes visual stimulation in many kind of ways; for example it doesn't mean I would emulate them or that I need a man to feel satisfied in real life. I liked you said you're not judging, I think this is a good point to start (to keep apart all prejudices often people have about sex and all that runs around it)
     
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    The small amount of so called lesbian porn I’ve encountered made me all too aware most of it is aimed at straight males with the participants invariably looking like Playboy centerfolds.
    Then there’s the peculiar frequency of anal intercourse portrayed with the actors having some trouble pretending they were enjoying themselves. Very few women I’ve spoken to about this admit to enjoying it. Given women don’t possess a prostate gland that’s not surprising. On the other hand it’s amazing how often straight males will denigrate gay men for indulging in anal intercourse yet they appear to think it’s OK to inflict it on women. Go figure.
     
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    I'm sorry cosmic I really don't understand maybe put down your smoking implement before writing ???
     
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    For me I also found myself not enjoying gay porn. From the other spectrum, porn doesn't emphasize your sexuality. It's like straight male enjoying lesbian porn (which is funny lol) just for masturbation.

    Well.. Everything is fine with yourself. There is no such things as "porn for lesbians" or "what kind of porn do lesbians watch?". You deserve what you want.

    *sending virtual hug :D 
     
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    Well thank you Tzap for rating my post funny, since that's what it was intended to be. :)  Not some anal-ysis about how us lesbians are "supposed to be." I do find them/us/me baffling though, that part was legit. :p  As to my own personal feelings on the matter, No, I don't generally find gay porn arousing, but I suppose that was made plain by my playful mockery. *cheers*
     
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    Although I do still like men (lesbian leaning bi here) and penises, I am not much for gay porn. A man and woman? Sure. Multiples involved, such as threesomes. Of course. Two women? OMG yes. Two men? Meh. lol
     
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    I'm cool if I never see another penis again...So no?
     
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    gay (men) porn lacks the "emotional connection/bonding" that is seen in lesbian or even in straight porn... and thus it isn't appealing (for me at least).

    it's much more physical than emotional and sensual.
     
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    As a gay male ( excuse me butting in again girls)I find 99% of gay male porn mechanistic and uninspiring. I spent too much time searching for romantic gay porn when I fist used the web and just gave up. Even if you type ‘romantic gay porn’ into a search engines it doesn’t appear to help.
    The first porn clip I ever watched simply gave me the giggles it was so badly acted. Next day walking down to the local shops I couldn’t stop giggling remembering how fake it all was reciting to myself over and over ‘Hey buddy, why don’t you shove your monster up my ..........” A man I hadn’t seen popped his head up over the fence telling me “I wouldn’t mind mate but I don’t think me missus would be too pleased’

    I can’t put myself inside any lesbian’s head but if I could I imagine I’d find a most lesbian porn is produced for straight males with totally unrealistic acting from women who appear straight and only doing it for the money.
    But hey, the major traffic on the web is pornography of all kinds and it’s a multi-billion dollar industry often producing content with the potential to traumatise and influence the very young is disastrous ways.
     
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    If I did a porn flick it would be pretty boring, I like being under the covers. It’s cozy in there ! :) 
     
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    Porn preferences =/= sexuality

    Plenty straight men dislike lesbian porn.
     
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    Personally I enjoy every kind of porn and I feel like I kind of analysed why. In case of gay porn it's because I find size and power differences super arousing. It's not necessary the male body that is hot for me but the dynamic between two people where one is super dominant and strong and the other is very submissive and smaller. It's hard to find that in lesbian porn (oh yes I've searched). I guess I define myself as a lesbian not beacause I don't find men attractive. I do, they're visualy pleasing. I just absolutely cannot imagine myself in a situation where I have romantic feelings towards man or have any desire to have sex with one. But hey! whatever floats your boat you know.

    I think it's kinda like with people who enjoy furry porn? I know it sounds stupid but do people enjoy it because they want to have sex with an actual animal (yikes!) or beacause animalistic traits and instincts sound good for them? You decide if the point I just made makes any sense or even is relevant to the topic.
     
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    Ya gotta remember that the people in porn movies are low paid actors who are probably supporting a drug habit. The guys are hard all day because of Viagra type drugs and the gals are basically abused. I never thought of porn as sexy, really just a gymnastic exercise.
     

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